not require and encourage Let's imagine a such a dialogue: members: son and mother;Saturday. mother enters the room and says: - What a mess on the table.Get!(Pause, child keeps mum.) Mom (reproachfully): - By the way, yesterday you did not swim! Son shrugs: - Lost ... Mother, insistently: - So, I forgot.Go-ka wash ... from his son - the silence ... (perhaps a nod head). ...Continue Reading
Stop cool insist on 1. does not prove its authoritativeness, otherwise the child will want to immediately show you mine. Any fight only strengthens resistance.Or break the child as a person. 2. Do not shout, you will not hear;Strive not as many words as successive actions, matter. 3. Try to keep that child needs to do, did not bind him with unpleasant associations. comprehend and thi...Continue Reading
Adolescence - a fairly long period.And it starts at about eleven years (and not as we used to think - thirteen or fourteen) and continues all the school years.And all this time with teenagers amazing metamorphosis occur.They also make it so strange to behave. Many mothers are hoping that with the child problem - temporarily, things will get better with time.We believe (and life confirms this...Continue Reading
confrontation Age - the age of the teenager. funny, but it is something like a three-year life crisis.Yes, the problem with the child are very similar to those which he bestowed in us are not so long ago. «I myself!" - Do you remember? child screaming "I myself," and he chugging-Sniffing pulled his short pants.Now panties steel where as long (and girls skirts vice versa).But the essence re...Continue Reading
Adults complain how difficult it is with teenagers.And they with us - easily?Or not too sweet?Adolescents strange situation: not yet an adult, but no longer a child.And this duality is often knocks us off, making it difficult to be understanding of their needs and capabilities.And provoke them into conflicts, and provokes us.We offer parents a test for relations with children.It will help you...Continue Reading
Help - reminder.Egocentrism (not to be confused with selfishness!) - The inability / failure to understand the emotions and feelings of other creatures. Girl shows on the globe and explains: "This is Australia.It is home to kangaroos, which with a bag.This is Africa.Here lives a crocodile and even Barmaley.This is Europe, where I live. Egocentrism doshkolenka - normal thing.This feature of ...Continue Reading
Wash, I mean, in a sense - to swim?No, it is dirty I did not go of course.But every time I send in the bath, light scandal begins.That he had no time, he is lazy, it just screams, "I do not want" without explanation.Lasts, lasts until they bring to the white heat.Yesterday literally sat, watched a movie, time to nine, time to sleep soon, I say that it is necessary to swim, and he told me: "I ...Continue Reading
pre-adolescent period for our children (and us) is fairly stable.Younger students learn, play, socialize, everything was okay ... And suddenly - in the usual stable world something happens. What?Explosion.Hormone. Like a river under the ice early-early spring: the quiet and calm.But the calm is deceptive: there, inside, gather new strength, responding to the fact that - the spring.And one...Continue Reading
kids - the people in general, kind and sympathetic.But there is a school very funny dash.It appears that way in six years and due to the fact that psychologists call "pre-school-age crisis."A sort of the first "serious" protest against the childishness - it's kind of like the statement to us: I grew up!Do not hold me for "fry".The child suddenly begins to resist the usual rules, thus, are alw...Continue Reading
teenager - all over, from head to heels, focused on itself.He seemed to always listen: it's there (inside) happening to me ?!Oh, something extraordinary, knowledge Chi-Tel tion. Because of this, the busy "samovnimaniya" it begins to seem that all the attention surrounding strapped on him, as if he - a magician, or a magnet, the center of gravity. And once all-all look - and then everythin...Continue Reading
not require and encourage Let's imagine a such a dialogue: members: son and mother;Saturday. mother enters the room and says: - What a m...
Stop cool insist on 1. does not prove its authoritativeness, otherwise the child will want to immediately show you mine. Any fight only stre...
Adolescence - a fairly long period.And it starts at about eleven years (and not as we used to think - thirteen or fourteen) and continues all the...